Tuesday, August 2, 2011

My Everything Man

Every girl has already picked out her wedding dress by the age of 13. Be it a princess style wedding or a small get together; every girl has thought it through.
What every girl does not think about is how much heartbreak each wide eyed girl will go through in order to get to that magical day.
Like a wedding, every girl has expectations of the groom. Even before meeting him we all have our lists. Be them saved as drafts on our phones, written in our journals or written on the back of our old math homework that we never turned in, we all have our lists.
Is that wrong? Is it wrong to have expectations? Do women have to settle, settle for a guy who wont call them back, who wont show up to dinner, who wont return your text. is that your ideal man? Well its not mine.
I deserve an everything man and so do you.
Someone who can watch a movie with me, play a board game with my family and me take me to the movies and buy me m&ms. Someone that i can play video games with and he wont freak out when i start making sound effects and wont leave when i jump with joy out of my chair once i've killed all the zombies. i deserve someone who will tell me everyday how much i mean to him. Who will let me win when we play basketball. a guy who when his friends ask who he is with he wont say ,"my chick" but he'll say, "my girl". Someone who respects my decisions and actions. Someone who can tell that something is wrong just by one glance.
I deserve an everything man, and so do you. 
Now just because he is all of these things does not make him perfect. And in all honesty i do not want him to be   perfect. Because to me, imperfection is beauty. i want someone who is not perfect. But what i do want is a guy who treats me like i am perfect. That would be the other main part of my Everything Man. Someone who does not tell me i am stupid for saying something. Someone who wont tell me that i look stupid or that my hair looks like straw. Someone who will support me in my choices. Someone who wont throw me out of his truck. Someone who will put his pride on the line to talk to me when i cant find any words. Someone who does not care what his friends think. Someone who will not try and hurt me.
See i deserve an Everything man and so do you. 

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